 Today, as I sit here spending time with Willow and Tessa, I see expressions and faces of the past looking back at me, and the grief hits like a punch in the gut. And I cry tears of loss and of being grateful all at the same time.
Processing the loss… Grief is a sneaky little beast, especially when it comes to losing your beloved Collies. Picture this: you're cruising down a beautiful, bright road, the sun is shining and you’re feeling on top of the world, and suddenly, bam! Tears start streaming down your face, triggered by a random song or the faint whiff of a favorite treat. It’s like your heart has a mind of its own, dragging you back to that gut-wrenching moment of loss. It’s a harsh reminder that, even on the brightest days, the shadow of grief can loom large. What nobody tells you is that your brain becomes a relentless movie projector, playing the painful scenes on repeat. You might find yourself lost in thought, reliving the heartache with the tears streaming down your face, as if it just happened yesterday. It’s frustrating, to say the least. You’ll catch yourself shaking your head, taking deep breaths, and whispering affirmations like “I’m okay,” even when doubt lingers in the air. It’s a daily battle, and sometimes you just have to give yourself a pep talk to break free from that emotional loop. And let’s be real—grief doesn’t come with an expiration date. It’s unpredictable, popping up when you least expect it. Some days, you might feel like you can conquer the world, while others leave you feeling utterly defeated. The key takeaway? You don’t have to navigate this rocky road alone. Check in on your friends and family who might be hiding their pain behind a smile. Those who seem “strong” often carry the heaviest burdens. So, lend an ear, share a memory, and remind them they’re not alone in this journey. When we lost our Collies, I grieved so hard that I remember looking at Marc and yelling Why? Just tell me what good could possibly come from this loss? He replied; Empathy and Compassion for others. I was reminded on that day of why I love him. Remember to Lift one another up always. Sometimes we don't need to understand the why of what has happened as much as you just need to have compassion and empathy for those hurting. The pain of our losses is real. Love to all of you, Suzi Newman and Marc Newman https://gofund.me/47eac9bd
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 A true friend is like that trusty pair of jeans you can always count on: they fit you perfectly, no matter how many times you wash them. They accept you for who you are, quirks and all, and that’s a beautiful thing. Whether you’re binge-watching your favorite show in sweatpants or sharing your wildest dreams over coffee, a real friend sees you at your best and your worst. They don’t just tolerate your flaws; they embrace them, reminding you that it’s okay to be a work in progress.
But here’s where the magic happens: a true friend doesn’t just sit back and let you wallow in your comfort zone. They challenge you to step outside of it. They push you to chase your goals, even when you’re convinced you’re not cut out for them. It’s like having your own personal cheerleader who also moonlights as a life coach. They’ll call you out when you’re being lazy or self-critical, and they’ll celebrate your victories, big or small. This balance of acceptance and encouragement is what truly helps you evolve into the best version of yourself. So, if you’ve got someone in your life who checks both boxes—accepting you as you are while nudging you towards who you could be—hold onto them tightly. They’re rare gems in a world full of surface-level friendships. It’s this dynamic that not only strengthens your bond but also enriches your life. After all, who wouldn’t want a friend who believes in them enough to help them grow? That’s the kind of friendship we should all strive for. Love and Light, Suzi Newman #truefriends  Believing in oneself is more than just a feel-good mantra; it’s a powerful catalyst for success. When Theodore Roosevelt famously said, "Believe you can and you're halfway there," he wasn’t just tossing out a catchy phrase. He understood that self-belief ignites motivation, fuels perseverance, and shapes our actions. It’s like having a secret weapon in your back pocket—when you truly believe you can achieve something, you’re already setting the wheels in motion.
The psychology behind this is fascinating. When you believe in your capabilities, your brain releases dopamine, the feel-good chemical that enhances focus and determination. This isn’t just fluff; studies show that self-efficacy—our belief in our ability to succeed—directly correlates with performance. So, whether you’re tackling a new project at work or training for a marathon, that initial spark of belief can propel you further than you might think. It’s like having a personal cheerleader, but instead of pom-poms, you’ve got confidence. Of course, believing you can is just the start. It’s crucial to back that belief with action. Set realistic goals, create a plan, and take those steps, no matter how small. Celebrate your progress along the way, and don’t be afraid to pivot if things get tough. In the end, embracing the power of belief not only boosts your chances of success but also makes the journey a lot more enjoyable. Remember... I believe in myself, and I believe in you too! XOXO's, Suzi Newman #believeinyourself #believe  In a world often driven by competition, the importance of uplifting one another cannot be overstated. When individuals focus on collaboration and support, they create an environment where everyone can thrive. This collective growth fosters innovation and creativity, leading to a more vibrant and dynamic society. Rather than viewing each other as rivals, embracing a mindset of encouragement allows us to harness the unique strengths of each individual.
The metaphor of the sky being dark with only one star aptly illustrates the significance of community. Just as a single star cannot illuminate the vastness of the night, individual achievements alone cannot create a fulfilling and prosperous environment. When we work together, our combined efforts shine brighter, inspiring others and fostering a sense of belonging. This shared light not only enhances personal growth but also contributes to the overall well-being of the community. Ultimately, striving to lift one another cultivates a culture of positivity and resilience. By celebrating each other's successes and supporting one another through challenges, we build a network of trust and collaboration. This approach not only enriches our lives but also paves the way for future generations to thrive in a more harmonious and supportive world. Together, we can illuminate the path forward, ensuring that no one has to shine alone. XOXO's Suzi Newman #bethechangeyouwishtosee #liftoneanotherup #raiseyourvibration  Each morning, as the sun peeks through your curtains and your alarm clock blares its obnoxious tune, you’re greeted with two powerful gifts: a Chance and a Choice. The Chance is the opportunity to start fresh, to shake off yesterday’s worries, and to embrace the possibilities that lie ahead. It’s like opening a new chapter in your favorite book, where the plot is entirely up to you. Whether it’s tackling that long-overdue project or simply deciding to smile at a stranger, the day is a blank canvas waiting for your unique strokes of brilliance.
Now, let’s talk about the Choice. This is where the magic happens. Each morning, you get to decide how you want to approach the day. Will you hit the snooze button for the fifth time, or leap out of bed with enthusiasm? Will you choose coffee or tea, hustle or chill? These seemingly small decisions can set the tone for everything that follows. It’s like being the director of your own film, where you can choose the genre—comedy, drama, or action—based on your mood. Embracing this power can transform an ordinary day into an extraordinary adventure. So, why not seize both the Chance and the Choice? They’re your daily reminders that life is full of opportunities waiting to be explored. Each morning is a new invitation to create the life you want, filled with laughter, learning, and maybe a little chaos. Embrace the possibilities, make your choices count, and watch as each day unfolds into something remarkable. Xoxo's, Suzi Newman #chance #choice #choices  Compassion is a superpower we all have, yet it often feels like the hardest thing to wield, especially when faced with people who seem to be brimming with negativity. It’s easy to dismiss someone’s bad manners or cynical remarks as mere conceit, but what if those behaviors are just the tip of the iceberg? Beneath that tough exterior, there could be a whole world of struggles that we can’t see. Imagine the battles each person is fighting internally—wars that are silent and unseen, where the spirit meets the bone.
When we approach others with compassion, we’re not just being nice; we’re acknowledging that everyone has a story. It’s like being a detective of the human experience. Instead of jumping to conclusions about someone’s attitude, we can choose to dig a little deeper. Maybe that rude cashier is dealing with a personal crisis, or that cynical coworker is just trying to cope with their own inner turmoils. By extending a little kindness, we create a ripple effect that can transform a moment of tension into one of understanding. So, the next time you encounter someone who seems to be having a rough day, remember that they might be fighting a battle you know nothing about. Compassion isn’t just a nice idea; it’s a practical tool for building a more understanding world. Let’s embrace the notion that everyone deserves a little grace, even if they don’t ask for it. After all, we’re all in this together, navigating our own unseen wars. A little empathy can go a long way, and who knows? You might just make someone’s day a whole lot brighter. Love to all, Suzi Newman #kindnessmatters #empathy #Compassion  Meadows, wildflowers, and mountains are my absolute favorites. There's something magical about the vast expanse of a meadow, with wildflowers dancing in the breeze. The colors, the scents, the peacefulness - it's nature's masterpiece. And let's not forget about wildflowers - they add a pop of color and a touch of whimsy to any landscape. It's like nature's way of showing off its artistic side. This is why we love Montana so much. It's definitely somewhere to put on your bucket list if you've not been here. A memorable get-a-way! By Suzi Newman
Here is March, 2024 Newsletter about what's happening at our farm. This is a beginning of something fun to do, and I plan to include a lot more each month which will be exciting for me and hopefully you'll all like it too!   XOXO's and Happy Spring!
Suzi, Marc and our Wind Whispers Family! #WWFnewsletter #windwhispersfarm #bestcollies #roughcollies #scotchcollies #smoothcollies #loveistheanswer  In a world full of chaos, finding inner peace is like striking gold. Today, I want to share a simple yet powerful practice that can bring a sense of calm to your soul. Place your hands over your heart and repeat after me: "My heart is full of Love and Understanding." It may sound cheesy, but trust me, it works wonders.
When you place your hands over your heart, you're not just making a physical connection, but an emotional one too. Saying those words out loud is like giving your heart a warm hug. It's a reminder that you are capable of love and understanding, not just for others, but for yourself as well. So go ahead, give it a try and see how it makes you feel. So, the next time you're feeling overwhelmed or stressed out, take a moment to place your hands over your heart and repeat those magic words. It may not solve all your problems, but it will definitely bring a sense of peace and clarity to your mind. Remember, a little self-love goes a long way in this crazy journey called life. By Suzi Newman  It's a snow covered landscape today. Montana is saying "so long" to winter and welcoming spring with open arms. The snow-covered landscape is transforming into a vibrant display of springtime beauty. It's like nature's way of hitting the refresh button. Enjoy the transition from winter wonderland to spring splendor – it's a show worth watching!
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